Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Wanting an EATING DISORDER? Wanting to SELF-HARM?

I've been reading a lot lately about people wishing to have eating disorders so they can be skinny and wanting to self-harm but can't bring themselves to. Here is what all of you need to understand: eating disorders are not a personal choice and they aren't to be glorified and wanted. They are awful, killer diseases that you deal with for your entire life. By wishing for one you are simply undermining the severity of the disease. As for self-harm, if youre that serious about it get help. People who self-harm need help and shouldn't be glorified either. It can be as awful as any mental disorder.

If you are struggling..
Eating Disorder Hotline: 18009312237
Suicide Hotline: 18002738255

Remember you are never..Stay Strong
xo Aria

Monday, August 29, 2011

Life....?

LIFE...Life...life. So many meanings for one word! More important than the actual word is the feeling it gives off. For some people life is full of wonder and love but for others its pure despair and hatred. Myself i find to be in between it's not always rainbows and sunshine but i don't constantly want to die either. Neither way is wrong  but I feel like everybody needs some positivity.

Ok now that that has been said...here's my point. Life is what you decide..yes certain things and people will try to stand in your way but STAND UP AND STAY STRONG. For those of you with eating disorders and self-harm issues..I realize those things may get you down and if you're fighting them, life can suck. Whatever you do, don't le them win. You are worth soooooo much more to everybody and this world.

If your family is the thing that sets you off... let them know. Yes they might get mad and upset but at least you will have gotten out what you need to.

Remember Stay Strong
xo Aria

feel free to email me at standupandstaystrongxo@gmail.com

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Stand Up and Stay Strong...welcome!

Hi everybody! I made this blog to show you that no matter what goes wrong, you CAN stand back up. My name is Aria and I'm taking through my journey. I'm anorexic, possibly depressed, and self-harm..which may seem like a lot to some people and like nothing to others but that's me. Society today puts pressure on everybody, every gender, every race, and even any age. The age is what concerns me the most.. we have 2nd graders complaining about weight or wanting to kill themselves..that's awful and uncalled for. Every single one of you are beautiful no matter what. I know this may sound contradictory based on my issues alone but I think everybody needs to hear they are beautiful sometimes. And remember you are NEVER alone in this world.
This blog is here for everybody who needs a voice and not one of a medical specialist.
I would love to hear comments from any and all of you! or you can email at standupandstaystrongxo@gmail.com

xo Stay Strong... Aria